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cw sexual harassment
Twice this week a (different) man touched me inappropriately and I think it put me in a dark spaceI’m starting to resent my cis guy friends a bit because they always act like they support me but then are completely useless whenever something like that happens. The next day they’ll just start talking again about their favourite books that only have cis male characters. I wish I had more trans friends but I haven’t had the energy to meet new people this year.
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Bummer, I do remember the first day after going out in a skirt, makeup, my hair long getting touched "accidently" way more than I ever had going out in boymode.Now, I believed it when people said that happened it them but it was a whole different thing to really feel it and understand it cause now it was happening to me. Tell your cis guy friends to femme up and see how often they get touched lol
They should've been there for you. A cis guy ally has the most powerful voice to call that out and stop it (kinda sad that it'd them buy whatever)
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The accidental touches are horrible. My bosses used to do that when I was 14 and 16, truly disgusting.What happened this week was 1 drunkard who was talking to me and my friends, he was already too close to me then. When we said bye he gave my friends a handshake but then got up real close to me go give me the grossest wettest kisses and my friends just stood there. When he was gone they asked me if that was inappropriate… I was too fucking upset to explain why that’s inappropriate.
Other incident was when I was alone and had to use a bathroom in a restaurant. The man who cleans the bathroom got super close to me when I was trying to pay the fee and touched my hips when I left.
Both times I was dressed masc, but my body is apparently clearly femme.