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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an “immortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

me moping about the difficulties of coming out to family, so CW for that if you're not in the right headspace I guessThe more I think about how I'm going to come out to my parents, the more I'm sure I really am trans, but the less I think I'll be able to do it sadness

They're US republicans, so they've been drinking the kool aid about "woke gender marxists", so I don't think coming out and saying I'm going to start dressing like a girl and acting more feminine just because I "feel like it" is going to work, even if I assure them that I'm not considering anything medical yet, and probably won't for several months at least (I want to get to a point where I've socially transitioned and am happy with it first)

So instead I thought about approaching it by explaining gender dysphoria, and gender roles, and performance and all that, but I feel like I would just be infodumping and they wouldn't pick up on it quickly enough to understand. How do you get anyone who hasn't experienced gender dysphoria to understand it anyways?

I know them well enough to know that at best, they'll probably just brush it off in the passive aggressive way they do when I make a decision that doesn't align with what they want for me. They've done it for less serious things. "Well you're an adult now, it's time you learned from your own mistakes". But if they don't receive it well, I don't know how they're going to react to it in the long run, which worries me.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

spoilerSo, you might find this freeing or restrictive, but... I think it doesn't really how you approach them about it. If they won't accept you as trans, then there's no way you can phrase it to make them accept it.

I think you should just frame it in the simplest terms: I'm hurting, and this will help me stop hurting. I want to be happy, and this will help me be happy.

That should be a parent's concern anyway.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

::: spoiler spoiler im sorry your parents are like this meow-hug

Coming out to someone you love or care about or are dependent on is always scary, doubly so if its to people who complain about the "woke gender marxists".

I dont have any immediate advice, ive had friends with transphobic parents who completely turned around, and others who just doubled down on their hatred. If you do choose to come out to them, just make sure youre safe in case they react poorly cat-trans