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I don't really know what to do with this information because it's not like this changes much. I have had a grand total of 0 romantic partners ever so saying I'm open to dating more at once doesn't change anything really, but the more my horny bi ass has been thinking about trying dating again as a trans girl, I keep getting torn between "do I want to go for a BF or a GF" and the answer is "I kind of want one of both?". I absolutely could not do two boyfriends or two girlfriends, but I feel like if I'm in a monogamous relationship with just one man or just one woman, I'd be constantly thinking about dating a person of the opposite sex/gender because they both scratch a different itch for me? Men and women are attractive to me in completely different ways and make me feel completely different and I can't imagine a man fulfilling my desire to be with a woman and vice versa
idk. maybe if i find a partner these emotions will still be there, maybe they'll go away. maybe they'll still be there but i'll just ignore them because the idea of dating two people at once sounds hellishly difficult
I dated someone who is gender fluid and that did it for me!
"Do I have a boyfriend or a girlfriend today?"
"Girlfriend"
"Awwww I was in the mood for boys"
Try again tomorrow :)
the next day:
"Do I have a boyfriend or a girlfriend today?"
"Boyfriend"
"Awwww I was in the mood for girls"
/j: Finally, a modern solution to the bi-cycle!
/srs: If being poly is what you need to sate this, then fuck yeah. It's not something you have to decide on now ofc, and Idk if having a partner will change it. Good stuff to think about though c:
god i always have some other bullshit to tell my therapist this time, don't I?
I'll probably find some way to sort this out in my head soon. Oh well, I got other hot girl shit to do in the meantime
I feel the same way but still consider myself poly fwiw, love is cool plus if I had partners and they had partners it be easier for everyone to get their needs fulfilled. I know polycules can start becoming branching webs requiring maps and stuff but still at least you got people around to play board games with.