My mother is finally gendering me correctly, she has been really supportive(even if she is really gnc, so she doesn't really get feminity I think), but that was something she had her problems with
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Are you a small-pants-big-shirt queer, or a big-pants-small-shirt queer?
(It's fine if you don't consider urself queer, anybody under the cisn't umbrella can answer )
Feeling cute today :3
I'm so good at being queer that my supervisor starting using they for me despite me boymoding at work ~~It's probably actually the usual degendering transphobia since I said he/she... But hey it ain't he this time at least~~
I know lingerie isn't really sleepwear but I love sleeping in my mediocre lingerie nightgown, it makes me feel like me and that's nice even if it's uncomfy.
And on that note I turn to sleep, g'nite megathread~
We gotta boost these numbers a bit if we wanna be a thousand ahead of news.
anybody got idea on what the NTs find funny? I work in a job that rewards entertainers and normal jokes like art technicalities or hinting at furry paw kinks dont work with those weirdos. They seem to snort at absurd stuff like the challenges of building McMansion or soda
Transgender chat, I cannot eep. Fucking weed whacker noise woke me up today. When can I wake up normally without being disturbed? Acab includes checks notes landscapers...
Ok I'm quitting Spiro. I have to sleep I can't take this anymore. I am so exhausted it's hard to describe. I feel like a zombie. I hope this actually fixes my insomnia because if it doesn't I am a bit at a loss
girls only have two moods:
"god my tits are so small and weirdly shaped i need a BA months ago wtf why are they so tiny????"
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"jesus christ those things in the mirror are massive, look at those tiddies"
and i switch between the two about six times a day
My neighbours are nice to me. Was walking the dogs with my wife and one of the friendly people on the corner yelled out "morning girls!". I'm very obviously trans and it's just nice to have this community of people that are all like 20-40 years older than me (aging little burb/village) be so uncaring about it.
Also I'm starting to age and feeling insecure about it instead of silver-foxy. Have I finally accepted myself? :P
if you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever.
Being trans is really nice, I don't get all that anxiety over egg-jokes. So weird.
went to turn my shower on and the shower head just basically exploded. ugh
i'm just so goddamn tired of spending my life fighting for a shred of dignity and respect. there's nothing wrong with being an autistic trans woman, to be one in a society that actively hates you at every turn is just... awful in a way i can't even truly fathom
My biggest fear: becoming a middle aged man
Music Iโve been listening to: Deftones, Chevelle (I only know of middle aged men who listen to them)
I think the Chappell Roan Minecraft parodies and Not Like Us mashups put me back in the right demographic, though.
Why the fuck am I being horny about guy leg hair what the fuck is HAPENNING TO ME
ngl i love the difference of having a job that lets me use headphones. just being able to be in my own world and get on with what i'm doing is nice
Feeling very eepy after all the excitement from today. G'nite silly little transes in my phone, I love you all~
dysphoria
Try not to sad post too much but the happy/sad ratio has been improving a lot.
The disconnect between body and mind is just always there, always reminding me. I feel like I'm looking out at the world as a girl, but it doesn't see me that way. And I understand why.
Just wrapping myself up in a blanket and trying not to look at my body too much. spoiler genitals Also random erections wtf penis. :::
When I looked in the mirror I noticed my hairline masculinizing, I used to look so much more 'rounded'. That was a neat thing. Things otherwise have been going better than they usually do, makes me fear when they'll go wrong.
I am however dreading a therapist appt next week, managed to finally get to see one (I forgot I was on a waiting list for the local community clinic, just got the call the other day), I am worried she'll be nearly traumatically transphobic as my PT was since that's the default out here, everyone is a bigot and that's how it is, though if she's that bad I'll just drive 2hrs away, I didn't want to, but I've replaced a bunch of parts on my ancient car, so it can probably take the stress. At least both places are on a sliding scale, so that's helpful.
I've been in a terrible, angry sour mood for like 2 days I'm OVER IT. I have nothing else to destroy. Go away feelings
small dysphoria talk
after i hit the bullshit male puberty my face was always covered in a layer of grease, like it was never ending. i could wipe it with a paper towel and see the grease on it. now that i'm on the good shit and my T levels are down my facial skin is SO GOOD it's so much better it's ridiculous. i'm fucking pissed how i could've had a good skin without the slight acne scarring (which has been fading thanks to E) that i still have this sucks
Chat I would dox myself in an instant to show you how incredible the results of the "Wide Tooth Comb ft. Oils and Conditioner and Blackjack" routine from wet. I dunno if my hair has ever looked better than this. That was probably the best shower I've ever taken in my life.
Weirdly my hair seems to be drying from the bottom to the top? I just put it in a towel for like 20mins, like usual, Idk why it is doing this.