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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").  Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

Mental health, burnout, family shitFeeling real yes-honey-left today

Lend me gay energy to take care of myself instead of just burning myself out dealing with external problems

I feel like I'm trying so hard to improve myself and do so much for other people to just keep my dysfunctional family afloat and it's never enough and I never feel appreciated for it

It's like no matter what I do and how hard I try to get my shit together, I'm always gonna be treated like a dumb gremlin baby by my family even as they increasingly become incompetent geezers that need my help with simple shit that they're too lazy to do for themselves

It feels like I'm carrying them around in the Flintstones car and if I quit lifting it up and kicking my legs to keep it moving, the wheels are gonna fall off and that's gonna be all my fault according to them and I'll never hear the end of it. this-is-fine its-a-living

Anyways here's a cute cat pic

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Readiing this thread, there's lots of sad queers who cant sleep

I am now obligated to point out it is a full moon

Solidarity

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sleeping at a "normal" time is hard. 4am is much easier.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I fell asleep at sunrise 😩

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

maybe all the puppy girls are onto something doggirl-smart

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I have a zodiac calendar and moon phases in my digital calendar so I can crack wise about not going out on the full moon

Be aware tarot cards unless youre ready for hurt feelings :p

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There is so much more to this Fire Emblem rom hack than I thought, and I have to reset my run because I misunderstood how supports work and I've forsaken romance for a lot of the characters i-love-not-thinking

I'll definitely have a mega post for when the time comes, there's a lot to this hack and it might just be peak gaming

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

For some reason I don't entirely dread having to restart the game, and I feel like it's worth it to enjoy the characters to their fullest. Also missed some characters and their dialogue, so...

(it's also just really fun)

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Found another white hair in my brush doggirl-gloom

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

yessss bridget-smug one of us, one of us!

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

yesterday i threw out my back falling up stairs and today i wrecked my ankle going down stairs

it's clear. this town ain't big enough for the two of us. one of us has to change. some third, appropriate cliche.

god i hurt

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago

How does one fall up stairs? I didn’t think gravity worked that way

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

monster zero ultra fills my veins

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

Crawl into bed at 2am, a reasonable hour! Suddenly connect that people I was helping pay for medical appointments last year have recently bought an apartment. At least I have this stale popcorn.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In theory I am pansexual and polyamourous. In reality I am single as fuck because I dont know what flirting is

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

why do americans talk about this guy "palmer john" all the time

is he like an italian chef or something

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

They're putting me on all the estrogen. 10 mg injected estradiol valerate.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I showed my ex that movie.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

is that why they are your ex?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I wish I could say yes for the meme, but it's cause we were too long distance and some other related things lol

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

more like the soy-cial soy-ences. am i right, fellow stem bros?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

literally the second i read this i stood up and started applauding

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (3 children)

i blow dried my hair today for the first time in a while and it turns out that it makes my hair very different (normally curly hair became kinda straight?), huh...

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

doggirl-sleep I'm so sleepy, but why could.I not sleep earlier? This sucks, now I'm gonna be tired all day...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

GAY, UP TOO EARLY AND VERY HUNGRY

doggirl-tears

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (6 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I should have gone back to bed a while ago, I am going to end up so emotional today. On that note, dear god I want to be on hormones :kitty-cri:

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago

Viral on Chinese social media:

Transwoman frm Hunan beat up a gay man from Hong Kong in Changsha. She said because he called Changsha city poor and ugly. She called him short. He threw food in her face. She proceed to beat him to the ground

cw, her dress slides down and she doesnt have a bra, the absolute queen 07

i saw this and all i could think of was "bussy pass denied" michael-laugh ~i'm~ ~sorry~ ~that~ ~was~ ~awful~

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don't think I've ever longed for site admins to allow pronoun-maxing more than today. I feel like I need a third set of pronouns for some reason cat-confused

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If it would be accepted, I could look into making the changes. I just don't want to work on it if the answer is going to be no due to moderation.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's tough to determine whether or not to do it, or how it should be done, especially since people were trolling when they first added the feature (I think this was brought up in the purge announcement thread?). If the moderation could be done, it would be nice to have, and Hexbear's had many purges since it's inception, so maybe it's in a better place for that kind of feature now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, adding a third is just.. adding another dropdown? And then a fourth, and then a fifth, and then...

And I'm just not really sure how that could be misused.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're right, idk why I was thinking making them a completely custom thing was the only way to add more. If pronouns are approved by mods, then people couldn't be reactionary with the pronoun options. I have no idea how any of this works, would there be a way to make it so it keeps asking for pronouns unless the most recent box says "none/use name"? If so, that would be amazing, and I see no reason why the admins could reject it.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

We should all aspire to be like @[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ugh, pushed myself too hard too soon yesterday postop and paying for it today. omori-miserable

A lot of my people are going thru shit rn, and I want to be there for them when they reach out, but I really feel like I can’t at the moment. blob-on-fire

Ugh, gonna try and go back to sleep.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (12 children)

can't sleep, let's have a tea thread.

I like Earl Grey lately for the afternoon for a little caffeine boost (with a bit of oat milk and maple syrup), but I'll also drink sencha or genmaicha.

At night I like camomille, or sleepytime, or Bengal spice, whatever Partner is making.

Since I stopped Spiro we've accidentally ended up with a huge bag of peppermint tea and I'm trying to like it again, because Spiro was gross but I used to like peppermint.

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