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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

I try to switch them up if someone has multiple, at least when I remember to.

My own odd pronoun question is actually regarding the comrade/them ones. I know some people definitely use them as a genuine way to show they/them but I feel like there's a lot of cis people on hexbear at wide who use it just for the comrade bit? So I always feel like it's a little riskier to use they/them for someone with it. Might just be me reading too much into it though.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't think cis people mind being they/them'd, especially if its in their tags.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

I refuse to degender someone, even a cis person.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I just use it for the comrade bit tbh yea also comrade is a really handy gender neutral title tbh

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Good to know, comrade. ~~glad that I wasn't crazy and did, in fact, correctly vibe how it was used.~~

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Vibes based pronouns kel-bliss

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

I think we should all address each other as comrade if we feel like, but I think “comrade/them” isn’t necessarily just “comrade said x, I like them,” but it could also be “I like comrade,” idk that’s just my interpretation.