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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yeah? I suppose I don't personally know anyone really further along than 3 years so I don't honestly know. I know there's still a lot of shaping and what have you left, but idk, I'm not sure what else to expect?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Facial changes, breast development, fat redistribution continue 10+ years on. My cheeks got bigger for instance, had a boob growth spurt at 10 years hrt randomly, went up a full cup at same weight. For reference I transitioned at 19 and I'm old as fuck now

2 years makes me think "ah so cute baby trans" tbh meow-hug

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Do you think breast growth can still happen if it stalled after 6 months HRT? Like I haven't had any growth since then and now I'm at 2 years and 2 months. At this point I kind of hope not as I'm hoping to get a BA within a years time😩

Also, when did you start feeling settled in your transition? I started at 19 too and I seem to pass now, but every day I still worry about getting clocked and what people think of me😩 I also still quite dislike my own appearance😖 I feel like I'm always chasing the next surgery or some other thing.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

It took me a long time to not be so jumpy around cissies. Like 8 years? I also have major issues with anxiety so

It took me 2 yrs to pass so a lot of that was in my head

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

scared I'm never going to feel comfortable around cissies again, am I chat?

Not that I care, fuck 'em lol.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

It is hard not to be jumpy around cissies, glad that it is a place to eventually get to!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Ah yeah, I have anxiety too😭 Sometimes it feels like some person is just looking into my soul and knows I'm trans😭

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

As for breast growth, its kinda eldritch and hard to say, its different per person. I will say that weight cycling seems to trigger growth (gaining a lot of weight, losing some, etc)

Also breast aug (fat transfer and implants) seem to cause breast growth in some people well after the fact.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Yaah it feels so random, but mostly it just feels like HRT does nothing for me😖 I am thinking of doing an extreme form of weight cycling by getting to an underweight BMI and then taking pioglitazone and putting on like 10-20 lbs🤔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Gods, I hope that it still shows with my aging. I turn 35 here in a few days and I just don't want to think about it. And I hope that getting top surgery now won't screw with any future breast development, but it's necessary cause they refuse to fill in and kinda just want to grow and droop. I hate it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Also, I look forward to aging. I genuinely enjoy seeing an older femme me. I feel like its not something discussed much.

The achey bones kinda suck tho

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago

I look forward to aging. I genuinely enjoy seeing an older femme me.

Ah fuck, this is so fuckin based cat-vibing I decided long ago that aging is Fine and Normal and Good Even, so I wouldn't stress about it. I feel like this sort of insight is EXACTLY the kind of shit that I've found lacking in other trans spaces. Rad.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

Hopefully we can get rid of bones in the nearfuture. I haven't been the nicest to mine.