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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Tbh the emoji are what made me move from another lemmy instance over here (that and seeing everyone say hexbear was super transphobic and hateful while every hexbear i interacted with was actually backing their claims up with links and giant effortpost comments.

kinkFor now Im happy just doing bondage and impact play, with some degredation and service. Its something thats important to me but ive never found a partner who A) i trust and B) can match me where im at. My current kind-of-partner-ish-person gets tired after an hour of whipping/flogging, but half the time when she calls the scene i just want more and its like the more i get the more i want. I had a partner who liked electroplay but im not super comfy with it (mostly cause of lack of education, plus ive been jolted enough times that its not a thrill or otherwise sexual anymore shrug-outta-hecks (idk, at this point it just takes me back to doing electrical stuff and like, i dont want to think about soldering or breadboarding while playing, yk?)).

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

hell yeah, sis! lemmitors are showing their reddit roots with all the projection they do.

kinkelectroplay, like shock collars and stuff? hm. also yeah there are a few things as sexy as soldering reminds me of primary school lea-why

good luck trying to find those limits, uhh... eventually. also yeah trust is a massive issue for me too. not even about being trans and shit, but like someone or a couple of someones whom i could trust with hurting me seems like a far fetched dream at times

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

kinkYeah, shock collars, electrowands, electrified buttplugs, etc.

Yeah nothing is as offputting as being in the middle of a scene and then suddenly thoughts of op amps go through your mind ๐Ÿ™ƒ

Most of my limit issues revolve around trust. I hope you can find someone(s) who you trust to hurt you <3