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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

You aren't in the wrong, your mother is. She is trying to control you. Most of what she has issues with is your autonomy and because you do different to how she would want.. it's about her not you basically.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI feel like this is the case too, but in the past when I've tried to explain things to her she always manages to turn it back around on me somehow. For example my mom absolutely hates my sleep schedule, every time she gets angry at me she brings this up. It's always my sleep schedule, somehow; it's like she gets personally offended when I sleep late. I've tried to explain to her that a lot of people have a similar sleep schedule to me and that me sleeping late is my business, but then she says that "actually, it makes everyone else's life in the family worse because you aren't participating in family activities like making breakfast (like your brother is)."

... I don't have an answer to that.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

mother stuffDoes your brother make breakfast? Is all she worried about is you being forced into a mothering role to provide for the family?

This sounds like shes forcing misogynistic parental roles in this case her role on to you.

You are within your right to sleep however you want and you can always skip breakfast so they can get their own, you aren't your mother.

Why can't she do her morhering role and provide breakfast or everyone get their own?

I had a controlling and narcissistic mother and she would try imposing her will and wants on me growing up.

I had this kind of stuff from my mother, she'd tey to foce me to clean the whole house when I was going through deprssion. She'd nevee show me who to do anyrhing then give me shit when I wasn't able to do it her way or up to her standard..

She threw me out soon after.