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[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (4 children)

(CW: you will experience crippling sadness if you’re a trans girl who’s pre op or likes their genitals)

https://old.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/k4x2n4/question_from_a_nonop_trans_lesbian/

this ancient Reddit post is making me die inside. First comment is a shitton of upvotes basically saying nobody likes me or people like me. Death to all Reddit users

[–] [email protected] 12 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I'm not reading that but honestly it's just not true if that's what it's saying. There is a healthy population of bi/gay girls who like dick but not men. Evidence is my friend who is getting a lot of attention from these sorts of women and is loving it

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (2 children)

gay girls who like dick but not men

denji-just-like-me

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

communist gay girls who like penis solidarity may we find peace

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

what the fuck is wrong with me why did i write "men" at first do i still have gender = genital brainworms somewhere in my wretched skull eviscerated WHERE IS IT I NEEED TO GET IT OUT GET IT OUT

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

cat-trans with the power of the human mind, we have hell right at home

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

They are around for sure

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

thanks the assurance is helpful. Idk why Reddit users are like this

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I genuinely don't care for the approval of cis lesbians. like it's because of shit like this that I only date/sleep with trans women at this point: there's no point in trying to get with someone who will never see me as a human being worthy of respect

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)

i feel like lesbians being transphobic is a bit of an unwarranted stereotype but that's just because cis people in general are transphobic

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, lesbians being transphobic is an weird narrative made up by straight, cis terfs. What the research actually shows is that cis LGBT people are much less likely to be transphobic than the straights, and cis lesbians in particular being the group most accepting of trans people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That makes the amount of transphobic lesbians I’ve seen a lot darker though. How many transphobes are in the cis gay man community for instance????

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

you notice the transphobes a lot more than you notice the ones who are chill, the numbers are bad but they aren't as bad as the transphobes want you to think

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

i think I remember seeing some statistic that proved cis lesbians weren't a more transphobic demographic than cis people, but I don't feel like looking for it right now lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Y'know 4chan's /lgbt/ is a popular source of brainworms, but I think reddit-logo will rise to prominence in the future as a major source for brainworms too. Awful place.

Holy shit actuallesbians was such a fucking hellhole.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Holy shit actuallesbians was such a fucking hellhole.

Did you experience other issues with it? Most people talked about it as a very welcoming and open place in other subreddits and stuff, but to be fair those are also on Reddit

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

I mean it wasn't like a terf place I guess, but I would say the linked thread is kind of representative of common attitudes? As much as you had lots of decent cis who wouldn't need to face the wall, you also had shit like that not infrequently. Very clearly run by & for the cis imo.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

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