I mean, I kind of can, but not really. I have AuDHD, and while sometimes my imagination can create pretty vivid (idk if that's the right word) imagery, and sometimes it can't do much of anything. What I will look like falls under the latter, and even my dreams seem to lack the ability. Can't speak for if it's normal or not though, I have a lot going on in my head and it's mostly messy 😅

I think the default for transfems is "you end up looking like your mom, but goth" and i just roll with that.

I had aphantasia before my head injury. I couldn't picture anything.

After recovering I suddenly could.

I began my transition 8 months later.

So... idk? 🤷‍♀️

Its normal for me at least.

For the longest time I think I avoided looking at other people (and myself), so I barely knew what other people looked like. An extreme example is I didn't recognize a well-above average height friend I'd seen nearly daily at school for 6 years after he got a very slightly shorter haircut than usual for a while and briefly wondered why a stranger was sitting in my friend's assigned seat. So I wonder if this contributes a lot to my inability to imagine myself.

same, and im late stage 10+ years hrt. i literally cant even picture myself in clothes i have to try them on and stare at them for like 10 minutes to tell if i like the colors or not

totally normal. it's totally fine not to have some kind of predetermined goal- the most important thing is that you're striving for a look/expression that gives you joy. by following that, i think you'll land on the way you really want to look.

Yeah, I also can't and I've been out for several years.

Yes.

i want to look like morticia addams and i'm looking like a grandma instead shit is rough

Idk, I'm starting to look like a Fae spirit, which is not what I anticipated but I'm Rollin with it

Same here