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My ex owned the last car I drove. She did not have a license, so I was pretty much the only person to ever drive in the house. Now I'm out of her house, so no more car. I'm walking everywhere in an extremely car dependant area, there's public transport it just sucks ass. However, I'm liking the walking. The more I do it, the less I even think about it. My ass is gonna look great, I can still get pretty much everything I care about within walking distance, life is good.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 months ago

The moment you realize you're happier carrying your groceries uphill than you were when you had to battle for a parking spot is truly liberating.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 months ago (2 children)

God I wish... I'm in the fucking suburbs with our grocery store within walking distance. But there's a major stroad through the route with no crosswalks and a 55mph speed limit that is more of a suggestion - chuds rip at 80+ in their lifted trucks.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Yeah, I've said what city I live in before, this is something I'm quite familiar with. These moments are the only time I wish I had a car.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Walking in an American city is a great way to realize how totally fucked our transportation infrastructure is. So many people seem to have never even bothered to try walking anywhere

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I don't drive my car for anything under 10 miles and I live in a walkable city with every amenity close by so I walk or ride a bike most of the time. But I've gotta admit, climate change is making it miserable in the summer months. The oppressive heat and humidity just makes you instantly sweat and even the breeze from bike riding won't evaporate it. Summers were perfectly walkable 10 years ago but those rare Heat Advisory days went from a week to entire months.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago

Yeah it's nice. Honestly the biggest downside is just that it takes a while. But it's time spent walking so like, how much of a waste is that, really.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

driving sucks! the 36 degree weather is getting a little old with the walkin tho lol

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

as someone undergoing an ass makeover of my own, kim-salute

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I'm 23, and I don't have a license yet, lol.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Welcome to the club. I've been at this since high school when I didn't want a car (much to the dismay of my parents) and didn't feel like bumming my friends for rides. Ever since then I've lived all over the US without getting behind a steering wheel once. It's harder in some places, but I'm lucky to live in an area with a long history and thus, more walkable layout. I haven't even seen a suburb in months.

I do recommend that you always have sunscreen and headphones, both of those will improve the quality of your day dramatically. I also would suggest that during summer you have some water with you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

As long as the weather's not too bad, walking is great. If I'm in a hurry, I bike, but that's always a little stressful cuz you gotta deal with either cars/drivers or poorly-maintained sidewalks. Haven't owned a car in 12 years

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

used to motorcycle everywhere and i feel this. the worst part of being a motorcyclist in florida is during our rainy season you are waiting for rain a lot and gearing up in your rain suit which you will die in from sweat because its raining and also 95F/35C out and you are wearing a fancy trash bag

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Walking rules. There's so much you get to experience at that speed. bugs and critters, people's gardens, just people, smells, birdsong, just the weather!

Plus yeah, it's great mild exercise. I'm also a believer that walking does something really good for our cognition because we grew up as a species doing it so much.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

I agree. Some of the brightest most creative people in history took walks as part of their daily routines. I think it's a great way to reset the brain and get in touch with your surroundings and your body

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

if where you live is that car dependent ive seen most people who ride bikes in long island do it on the side walk

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

oh you sweet summer child, you're assuming they even have sidewalks where she lives

amerika is a cursed country

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

I really want to record a (45m+ long) video of me attempting to cycle to the nearest grocery store, paying special attention to the nonsensical sidewalks that start nowhere and lead nowhere. but I wouldn't want to narrow down so much where I live lol

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I live in a place with good public transit and I still walk or bike or skate everywhere I can. It's great to get the exercise and I also get to just be in the community more by being outside. It's definitely the way to go if you can

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Yeah I love meeting people on my way to things. Any idea how many times I've been asked for a lighter because I reek like cigs? I get to talk to so many people around me, it's great

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

ngl i miss the bus... i used to write so much and read more and i texted people back in a semi-timely manner. now that my hour+ of commute has been replaced with time where i actually have to pay attention to where i'm going, life at large seems harder to deal with.

i'm sure driving is WAY worse tho lmao

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am in a similar spot. There is a grocery store easy walking distance from me. There is also a 6 lane medium speed street, might actually be a highway, and a freeway on ramp right there. That intersection is scary with a car. I know I should be walking there but I haven't worked up the nerve yet.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I know I should be walking there but I haven't worked up the nerve yet.

I'm pretty far gone on the "stop making excuses for taking the car" scale and I don't think that is something you should approach without a car

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Username checks out (you can call me 5bicycles)

Yeah, making a habit of walking something like what you’re describing is not a great plan. Make noise at your city council meetings instead.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

One of the things I miss the most about my hometown compared to the capital adjacent locality I live in now is that back then I could walk everywhere, and when I had to drive the road were simple and calm.

Where I live now it's always ups and downs, up ramps and down ramps, things are close by but the city is built on a slope and walking is annoying

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When I put my earbuds in, and I'm just getting lost in the music while I'm feeling the sunny weather, I'm happiest. And these days, I'm not smiling often.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

I think I need to get earbuds again, I lost my last pair. But being in the sun (no a/c) and listening to music were my favorite parts of driving, an activity that I hated. I should incorporate that into something I like

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

I'm really happy that you're making it work! Consider buying some orthotic insoles if you can spare the money, I bought some on a lark and didn't notice how often I was in minor pain because my shoes were not adequately supportive.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

I would too if it weren't for this heat. Granted my car doesn't have ac but atleast it is quicker. I love winter bc I can walk everywhere without being a sweaty mess

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Walking is great. I like taking the pups out for extended walks and just listening to new music ive downloaded

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I need to get earbuds again, that sounds like a good idea! Loved listening to music in the car, I think I should move it to my walks.

Also, big thanks for that AI job. I'm about to get my first paycheck from it and it's making a huge difference.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Ive lived in a couple of situations where I only had to drive once a week. it was for groceries, because I was technically in a food desert. but my work and hangout places were all like a mostly chill walk. it was dope. not having to get the behind the wheel is a beautiful thing.

basically been spending the last 10 years saving and plotting and strategizing a way to have that again, but this time not to have a landlord and all it's attendant insecurity, get a little kitchen garden situation going, to be not in a food desert, and even have some decent public transportation options for longer distance travel.

the expansion of remote work has created a more potential.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Whenever I'm out walking I mentally play the theme of the assassin guy from Master of the Flying Guillotine