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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Gender research findings go here

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 minutes ago

I fucking love my trans comrades so much trans-heart

[–] [email protected] 5 points 44 minutes ago (1 children)

okay. with the encouragement of multiple people, i decided to say something:

pee peewait, fuck! no!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 27 minutes ago (1 children)

D: One day you will be able to say something, I believe in you

.Was going to call you pee pee girl, but do you want the pee pee girl bit to stop? Wanna make sure I'm not making you uncomfortable, so if you want it to stop that's fine. Or if you just think its unfunny and want it to stop that's cool too

[–] [email protected] 5 points 25 minutes ago (1 children)

lol you're just fine :) i don't mind it and i honestly like the attention

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 hour ago

today in adventures in being out at work

guy comes up to me and while i'm pretty used to being called "sir" because of my barely trained voice, this guy called me "sir" before i fucking said a word to him agony-deep, so I just took a mental deep breath and responded to him in my best femme voice I could muster. I think I could feel that it was at least good enough to put him on his toes because the rest of the interaction was kind of awkward and he never called me a man after

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago (4 children)

can i please say something

[–] [email protected] 4 points 26 minutes ago (1 children)

I have you marked down for saying something on January 18th, at 6pm martian time

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 minutes ago (1 children)

ok... please remind me the day of...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 minutes ago* (last edited 8 minutes ago)

In case you feel the need to post some time before or after said date, I have attached a document that states when you can post

TitleAnytime Anytime me
Anytime Anytime me Anytime

The formating seems to be messed up so here's an image instead

[–] [email protected] 4 points 49 minutes ago (1 children)

please say at least three things

[–] [email protected] 4 points 45 minutes ago

ok! hold on

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

My mom says if you have nothing pee pee to say you shouldn’t say it at all

[–] [email protected] 4 points 45 minutes ago

tell your mom i said thanks

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 hour ago

Ah who needs girl clothes when you can just listen to shoegaze all day long kel-bliss

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

Who wants to see my tatas?

alphys-smug

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

::: spoiler life is weird Meds have been helping... But still have all the (lack of) executive capacity, and seriously feeling the avoidant side of myself, getting very anxious about bringing people further into my life. Ive been so social lately, i feel like i may be overdoing it, and im trying to deal with that without overcorrecting and cutting all my friends and new aquaintances out of my life for the next 3 months catgirl-flop

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Don't burn yourself out, any true friends will understand if you need to take a step back and have some alone time

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Thats the thing, i dont need to step back catgirl-disgust normally i just burn out and thats how i manage my social battery (great strat, i know catgirl-flop). Its more me getting in my head and panicking about myself than an actual need to step back, if that makes sense?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Yeah my social anxiety is still pretty bad but I’ve noticed that, around people I’m familiar and comfortable with, I don’t really get drained like that anymore. I actually like hanging out with people now which is weird because I haven’t felt like that since I was a kid

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago

Yeah, i havent been this social in a long long time. Happy your social battery isnt getting drained so heavily anymore catgirl-happy

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

That makes sense. I actually understand that on a spiritual level, I don't really get exhausted socially anymore. I'm friendly, my default expression is a smile, and I actually engage in conversation with people.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Omg i know right!? Its wonderful, but now I need to change how i manage my social life catgirl-huh

Transition has me socializing & mood stabilizers has me not getting socially exhausted, truly a new me catgirl-happy

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Yeah, I'm glad I met the girl I love after I transitioned. She deserves this version of me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 hour ago

This makes my ~~incredibly melty~~ ice cold heart melt in joy meow-melt catgirl-sorry im so glad she gets this version of you catgirl-happy

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