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Knife play is one of those that truly scares me, i have a specific thing around sharps and blood, anf while knifeplay is very alluring in my mind, i think its relegated to "act in" fantasy for me, instead of an "act out" fantasy.That being said, bruising and drawing blood with floggers/whips/etc. is very appealing. I think its specifically the sharp aspect for me
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i have some experience with sharp edges and bleeding, so the sharpness is the thing that really gets me going. also someone actively trying to scare me with biting my neck WHILE using the knife on the other side of my neck is uhh....yeah.kink
Ok being trapped between biting and a blade is kinda hot nglIdk, i think my hesitancy is because I know how bad things can go with knives (yayy unsupervised childhood) and i dont really trust myself or others with them. Idk, like it definitely is in the realm of "sometimes i find this appealing, sometimes not, but whenever i find it appealing its exclusively an "act in" fantasy.
I get similarly squicked by whips wrapping around my body due to incompetence (when its purposeful and controlled that can be really hot), specifically because i dont trust the other person to control their strikes at that point. It snaps me out of the scene, and not in a check in "come back up top for me so i know your ok. Ok cool you can go down again" kind of way.
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i know right!yeah i can understand the hesitance around knives, but if you'd like to test the waters, i did see a cute wooden knife for knife play on etsy. you could also use the dull edge or just a straight up a dull blade. that way you can still get the experience without the risk of a fuck-up. but obviously you know your limits
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Aww ty for the suggestions! Tbh rn i dont have anyone i trust with that degree of play in my life, so its kinda relegated to the back burner regardless.I also just discovered this emoji
and i love it, lowkey want to take a stylized tattoo of it now 
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welcomewe have the best emojis folks, i think that one was a meme someone posted on the subreddit years ago, but don't quote me on that
Tbh the emoji are what made me move from another lemmy instance over here (that and seeing everyone say hexbear was super transphobic and hateful while every hexbear i interacted with was actually backing their claims up with links and giant effortpost comments.
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For now Im happy just doing bondage and impact play, with some degredation and service. Its something thats important to me but ive never found a partner who A) i trust and B) can match me where im at. My current kind-of-partner-ish-person gets tired after an hour of whipping/flogging, but half the time when she calls the scene i just want more and its like the more i get the more i want. I had a partner who liked electroplay but im not super comfy with it (mostly cause of lack of education, plus ive been jolted enough times that its not a thrill or otherwise sexual anymorehell yeah, sis!
s are showing their reddit roots with all the projection they do.
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electroplay, like shock collars and stuff? hm. also yeah there are a few things as sexy as soldering reminds me of primary schoolgood luck trying to find those limits, uhh... eventually. also yeah trust is a massive issue for me too. not even about being trans and shit, but like someone or a couple of someones whom i could trust with hurting me seems like a far fetched dream at times
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Yeah, shock collars, electrowands, electrified buttplugs, etc.Yeah nothing is as offputting as being in the middle of a scene and then suddenly thoughts of op amps go through your mind ๐
Most of my limit issues revolve around trust. I hope you can find someone(s) who you trust to hurt you <3