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blackpilled brainrot shit
If you have The Autism and don't know what social norms are, cannot perceive them... can I recommend strongly against learning about them? I mean it less in the, conversational politeness way and more the, some actions or traits or whatever, fucking styles of dress, have weird inexplicable connotations or horrible implications according to neuro fucking typicals. It is so cursed, like you know those guys on that 4chan board that always talk about chad and stacy, and the fucking "dating market" like it's goddamn wallstreet for their incel asses?? People rightly make fun of those anons, but by truth the actual social norms that have been concocted on our planet are not particularly far off of that. It's utterly fucked up.The reason I recommend against learning them is because it's just psychic damage. It's not something you can use really, there might be stupid arbitrary rules or the person who told you might be seeing it a certain specific weird way, or just be wrong. So stay oblivious, stay well, holy shit.
unspoken rules
Tbh there's too many unspoken rules and expectations to learn them all. I accepted that my brain is wired completely different to many others. A lot is confusing and strange, liike when I have had people assume something completely at random from how I speak or they lfabricated a whole conversation where they were convinced you were upset at them or whatever. It can be vey confusing getting this kind of stuff out of the blue because some unspoken rules were crossed.I think people also assume there is more going on unsaid, but like I'm straight forward and say what I mean all the time.
I think we gotta do something about neurotypicals
It happens with everyone lol but neurotypicals react a lot worse than other neurodiverse when explained. They tend to double down or it changes to ableism
But yea that does suck, hate it.
There is a fuck ton lol I know some from experience but like I am going blind to a lot. I feel oblivious to some things and try to show people respect but I've been blind sided by some peoples reactions numerous times
You can recommend it, but I am not planning on taking your advice. Just today I learned something I was doing was actually flirty and I died a little inside. Can't have that happen in the future
And yea it really isn't that far off.
Flirting is hard, I've had people mistake my normal talking as flirting a load of tines
Waow the accidental flirt Eggnog! I have never done that before nuh uh!!!
But like I say, it's good to know if words or phrases or w/e have specific submeanings and stuff, the conversational rules are ok to know. It's everything else that's so fucked y'know.
Look the tildes aren't always flirty they can be for sing songy cuteness too but I sure as hell use them for the flirting a lot