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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)

unspoken rulesTbh there's too many unspoken rules and expectations to learn them all. I accepted that my brain is wired completely different to many others. A lot is confusing and strange, liike when I have had people assume something completely at random from how I speak or they lfabricated a whole conversation where they were convinced you were upset at them or whatever. It can be vey confusing getting this kind of stuff out of the blue because some unspoken rules were crossed.

I think people also assume there is more going on unsaid, but like I'm straight forward and say what I mean all the time.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think we gotta do something about neurotypicals internet-delenda-est

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

It happens with everyone lol but neurotypicals react a lot worse than other neurodiverse when explained. They tend to double down or it changes to ableism aware

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

owl-pissed I wanted a list of unspoken rules.

But yea that does suck, hate it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

There is a fuck ton lol I know some from experience but like I am going blind to a lot. I feel oblivious to some things and try to show people respect but I've been blind sided by some peoples reactions numerous times