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[โ€“] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

misgendering (good news though โœจ๏ธ)Finally stood up for myself and asked my therapist to stop calling me sir (he already knew I'm trans and want hrt/some surgery, he's just a fuck I guess). Felt good to say something, even if it was difficult. He made an effort not to as well so comrade-birdie Good thing for me to do, I always have struggled to speak up about my needs.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why would a therapist call anyone sir!? Is he TRYING to make it stiff and formal!? meow-cactus

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

more misgenderingUsually he calls me guy or man, but yea sir was his term of choice at the beginning of this last session.
He usually does a good job making it feel casual though, but yea not great.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Maybe sir is his way of building up your self confidence because "sir" demands respect.

He could easily call you madame tho edgeworth-shrug

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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