traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

994 readers

161 users here now

Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.

Please follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct
Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.
No personal identifying information may be posted or commented.
Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).
Bring a trans friend!
Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.
Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.
Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.
While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.

If you need your neopronouns added to the list, please contact the site admins.

Remember to report rulebreaking posts, don't assume someone else has already done it!

Matrix Group Chat:

Suggested Matrix Client: Cinny

https://matrix.to/#/#tracha:chapo.chat

WEBRINGS:

🏳️‍⚧️ Transmasculine Pride Ring 🏳️‍⚧️

⬅️ Left 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 Be Crime Do Gay Webring 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 Right ➡️

founded 1 year ago

MODERATORS

[email protected]

Cards on the table: What is the most 100% extremely very cisgender thoughts you ever had (hexbear.net)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

52 comments fedilink hide all child comments

even more bluntly: What were those completely and utterly ridiculous thoughts that you had in hindsight that make you wonder how on earth you ever even managed to convince yourself that you were cis? I'll start:

I remember browsing through a bunch of trans memes on reddit (already very cisgenderly) and I kept coming across ones that were some variation on stepping out of a time machine to meet your past self as a different gender. For maybe about 2 months until I realized that it really was true, I admitted to myself and two of my close friends who are both trans women that i would just not be surprised if I stepped out of the time machine from the future as a trans woman. my only thoughts on that were basically to laugh it and say "yeah that tracks". Somehow I could admit that I think it's totally plausible to be a trans girl in the future yet still be 100% cis

anyone have any other fun thoughts like that?

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

Sounds extremely relatable to me. I also consider myself autistic and find gender hard to understand. Before I discovered labels like agender, I never connected signs I'm not very cis, so I'd also just think my interest in having a woman's body was solely sexual (and later realized I was wrong). But like... women (and some NBs/genderfluid at some times) are the people who generally want to have women's bodies during sex (not just like one time thing to try out). But I don't use any labels like woman and would prefer not being seen as a woman (although that probably would be better than being seen as a man) - I mostly just want to change my body and escape expectations for men.