I like girls (in a gay way) and guys (also in a gay way).

Me: femme

Me: not attracted to men

My brain: actually, you like dressing femme to attract men

Me:

It's funny cause pre-transition, I was "gay" but absolutely did not enjoy gay sex in any way, shape, or form. I was simply heavily attracted to men sexually but not in a male/male fashion. I did this for 15 fucking years I would like to add. Y'think I would've figured things out way before I did.

I'm a big ol' hairy cis man and my partner is NB, and they told me recently this is exactly how they reacted when they met me.

things feel straight when they are gay and gay when they are straight and it all sucks shit and feels like garbage

The only time I was ever actually interested in men was when gay men were attracted to me. The way straight men look at me is so boring. I can sympathize with the trans women who keep their gay guy partners after transitioning. They're so fun.

But also, stay away from people who aren't attracted to your womanhood. Its fine if you've already developed a connection with them, and thats where the attraction comes from. But, you need to protect yourself! Don't fuck with anyone unless they cherish your womanhood! (or whatever identity you adopt). They will inevitably encourage behaviors that don't make you happy. If gay sex was fully satisfying to you you wouldn't have transitioned. They will act as anchors to the past you need to move beyond.

The less empathetic and subby you are the less this probably matters. I just think people aren't careful enough with their emotions when it comes to sex.

We need to stop immigration from straight countries...at least until we figure out what's going on with them! Just for a while.....

Sex with a man is inherently gay

Unless it's a straight man having sex with a woman. That is also gay, because they should be having sex with a man, which is not gay, but only for them.

i thought i was pansexual before transition but it just turns out penises are fine when they're attached to lady's

so i'm basically the opposite, where i start turning into a flustered moron every time I find myself around pretty women whereas men routinely make me want to burn down reality itself

but for a while there when my wires were crossed I found myself enduring the smells and antics of a gender I was priming myself to leave in the dust fully; who knew

either way figuring yourself out is great

I have the opposite to this being in a relationship with a woman and being like "ohhhhh holy fucking shit dude im straighttt im fucking straighttt oh fuck oh shit im sTRAIGHTTTT im fucking STRAIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTT", as I'm wearing silky lingerie, a corset, make up, have long hair, no body hair and are getting topped.

Me: only really started to be interested in men after starting transitioning

Also me: