I realized I overshared too much and I'm regretting it now
traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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I got this small like, Japanese(?) cat plushie and my god this thing is amazing. Need more plush in my lfie.
I was standing in the shaving aisle with wifey, we were mulling over which razors to buy, what was on sale and such. We were gonna get the four pack of 4 blades, but she wanted to save with the 3 blades ($1 less) at which point I turned to her and said "Anything more than three blades is for rich people." and she grinned a lil.
Chat, I have never felt more complete in my life, the elation I felt is indescribable. Me, making Orange Book injokes with my wife. This is what victory feels like.
doing a closet cleanout rn and I think there are just some colors out there that I simply do not understand. What is a person supposed to do with light gray? So much clothing comes in light gray and does it actually flatter anybody? if you're a light gray clothing enjoyer I fear and respect you.
Continuing from the other thread
So speaking of saying something then worrying about it @[email protected] when I said “To be honest I don’t care enough to read through the struggle session again to see what you said” I’m worried it sounded like I was saying I didn’t care about how you were feeling instead of saying that I didn’t care about the struggle session which would’ve been kinda rude so sorry about that
If I got covid from going on the bus to a makeup store where I didn’t even buy anything I’m gonna be kinda mad.
I hate people who go on the stuff I do and dont give a shit on what I have to say! I get good feedback by almost everybody, but today they all seemed to not give a fuck and not even turn around when I started talking. I hate tourists (I work in tourism)
So dreams, they're kinda kooky. Mine are usually full of like weird senseless gore or uh computers ig. How long did it take for your dream self (if you dream as yourself ever) to start matching your irl self?
This is kind of a self perception or conceptualisation thing I guess, I think my dreams better reflected my image the more I replaced pronouns and titles for myself internally. I never really dreamt of myself as a boy, instead I was a weird sort of amorphous blob, like the Reincarnated As A Slime protagonist or something. It took several years for the me in my dreams to match the me_irl, which is great because now my brain thinks I should have weird sex shit or just be topless in dreams half the time
I have no idea if anyone else has experiences like this, maybe most people don't dream in first person or just always dreamed as their actual gender. Me I never had dreams about being A Girl, Idk :>
I'd say I more just see myself as like a haze, not clearly in focus. I've always dreamed in first person though.
weird sex shit
I did dream about having bottom surgery last night, that was weird.
I had some valerian root tea and an edible. I'm hoping it kicks in soon as I wanna go to bed early tonight. And by early I mean by 1:30ish instead of like 3 or later like I've been doing the last few nights
Earliest I've ever been here
I hate when I succumb to the worst urges of Online and then regret it, always feels like shit. at least I usually manage to sober up and do a bit of self crit and delete the Bad posts. sometimes I feel like posting is bad for me lol and I should just write in a journal or some shit. i guess everyone's susceptible to it and it's gonna happen from time to time. I like to think this site is better for me than like, twitter or whatever which I don't have anymore. and I think it's a fair thing to think. but maybe I should try take a week off or smth, I've been scrolling and posting a whole lot. love all my trans comrades 💜
I hope I am not spamming 😅
NSFW trauma generally
Anyone has sexual trauma from porn? Aside from that I went on sites such as Omeagle and almost got groomed, or did for a short while, as a teenager. Been repressing since and working throuhg it with therapy.