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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").β€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (16 children)

::: spoiler mental health meltdown, spectrum brain shit, trans shit, dysphoria, alcohol cessation, drugs

I think I overloaded and short circuited something in my weird brain from stepping too far out of my comfort zone

I got extremely sad and overwhelmed by realizing how acutely difficult it is for me to try and Have Fun and Be Normal and big crowds and noise make me really existentially weird and maudlin about how being surrounded by happy normal people make me viscerally feel Alone and mentally beat the shit out of myself for not already being in a better place in my life overall

Saw a trans woman there and I know it's bad to assume things about strangers but something about seeing how much of a Normal Woman(Trans) she seemed like made me extremely self conscious and feel incredibly grotesque and meltdown internally with "oh god why did I stay in denial so long, why didn't I come out in my teens and transition young, I'm doomed, etc" thoughts

I got home late and really wanted to buy booze and fall off the wagon and get blackout drunk but willed myself out of it and took a bunch of kratom and can't sleep and feel kinda sick and just totally burned out

Sorry for being like this and also sorry for apologizing for not being okay lmao

screm^AAAAAAAAAAA^

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

HASAN SHAVED boohoo noooooooooooooooooooooooo~oooooooooooooooooooo...~

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

Having sushi and cake for breakfast. Bougiest breakfast I've ever had lmao

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

thirtymilliondeadfish has had there social position, personal integrity, leftist credentials, and gender credentials savaged.

screm-pretty

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

PFLAG and WPATH sound like environment variables

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Cis people with bathrooms are wild. Oh its progressive to have the lobby of the building be a lkeypadded gender neutral bathroom (one person occupancy) while having every floor just have the typical 2 gender bathrooms

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Being a blue whale seems like a sweet gig (other than the noise pollution) just swim around with your mouth open, visit the carribean laze your way to the Indian ocean, visit by the antarctic

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (13 children)

cw reddit/fashion brainwormsI am wearing skinny jeans today to spite the whiny people I saw a few years ago on Reddit complaining that they were out of style.

Spite wearing is kinda fun actually, I dig it.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

@[email protected] I just realized, considering your profession, your username is terrifying

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Hey! It's the last time I'll ever be your nurse!

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

if a comm doesn't get made after being put on c/commrequest, is there someone we can go and ask about that? i really feel like c/disabled is a comm we should have.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's an old joke/stock phrase and it goes like this: "take two and call me in the morning"

You used to be able to call your doctor any time and schedule an appointment for the NEXT DAY?! I can't even get a consult to show up the next day in the hospital 😬 WHERE THEY WORK.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

There is a part of me that thinks it's not right that they gave Kirby he/him pronouns, way back when...

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (15 children)

Okay I obviously have a lot to learn about this puppy girl thing to say it lightly lmao

spoilerI literally have only ever encountered it in terms of pet play, I didn't know y'all had a whole other thing going on and that's on me for not knowing

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

my mam has been asking me a bunch of stuff about communism so i sent her the Parenti lecture parenti-hands sicko-blur

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)

In know about twink death but I'm hoping for twink rebirth as I make slow sustainable changes in my diet/exercise/beauty routine these coming years. Going from a power type character to a speed one is end goal no-copyright

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I fucking love going clothes shopping with my transmasculine comrade. We both know exactly how to shop for each other’s needs and have so much fun doing it.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Got my gay lil umbrella, gay lil bag, gay lil water bottle, and gay lil box of gay lil pastries

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (6 children)

it is 2018. place japan enjoyers are coming up with increasingly esoteric ways to deny that a trans character in japanese media is trans stfu-terf

it is 2022. place japan enjoyers are coming up with increasingly esoteric ways to deny that a trans character in japanese media is trans bridget-smug

it is 2024. place japan enjoyers are coming up with increasingly esoteric ways to deny that a trans character in japanese media is trans

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

two weeks later, I finally did my fr*ckin injection

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I do not have a wardrobe made for the cold.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

Viral on Chinese social media:

Transwoman frm Hunan beat up a gay man from Hong Kong in Changsha. She said because he called Changsha city poor and ugly. She called him short. He threw food in her face. She proceed to beat him to the ground

cw, her dress slides down and she doesnt have a bra, the absolute queen 07

i saw this and all i could think of was "bussy pass denied" michael-laugh ~i'm~ ~sorry~ ~that~ ~was~ ~awful~

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (16 children)

Why does my co-worker have to be such a radlib?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Got nail polish so that's, cool. Problem is I fucked it up and didn't buy nail polish remover

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

driving home behind a fire engine with flashing lights is scary ngl. instantly my brain is convinced i left the oven on and my house is burning down (i did not and it was not)

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When you're watching a random early 2000s action movie that's on TV, and out of nowhere...

Transphobia, chaser nonsensetwo characters talk about watching porn, with one them saying he's getting tired of watching women on women action, to which the other responds that maybe he should try (insert porn slur popular with chasers) porn. cringe

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

You can stumble on stuff like that with no warning anywhere. I forgot the bit in Trainspotting is a thing, lmao.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

girl magic :3

cw needle

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Wore a skirt in front of my mother in law for the first time today and I could see her see it and then pointedly not acknowledge it. Why is this the most common reaction that I get? It’s maddening

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I look really hot topless and braless but wearing jeans, dunno what it is

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (9 children)

cw: dysphoria, ventIt feels wrong calling myself a woman when my voice and body are the way they are, like, it feels like I don't deserve to call myself that when I haven't really done anything doggirl-tears I know this is all just brainworms and I don't owe anyone anything to be able to call myself a woman, but it still crosses my mind frequently and it bothers me a lot. Hopefully I can get out of this living situation and get to a point to where I feel comfortable transitioning, but it's really looking like I'm going to be locked into this for another couple of years at least. trans-sad

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Is it toxic that I like when people I date are a little bit annoyed with me?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

I don't know why this is the case, but I hate how hard calling myself a woman is. Maybe with time/transition progress it will be more natural feeling? I definitely want to be, so I guess I am, idk it still feels wrong.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

I aspire to be even a fraction as waow-based as the Public Universal Friend.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If huffing nail polish is so bad for you why does it smell so good? Checkmait liberals

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

It’s cold, I wanna be a burritodoggirl-tears

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