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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Transgender chat, I cannot eep. Fucking weed whacker noise woke me up today. When can I wake up normally without being disturbed? Acab includes checks notes landscapers...

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My mother is finally gendering me correctly, she has been really supportive(even if she is really gnc, so she doesn't really get feminity I think), but that was something she had her problems with

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago

Being trans is really nice, I don't get all that anxiety over egg-jokes. So weird.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago

20mg of Medikinet, actually able to work on stuff I want to work on like sphynx-site. lea-happy

Hopefully it can help me actually do something about my body.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Bit idea, come out as gay first, then trans. 'Hey guys, I'm gay. GAY FOR GIRLS'idk probably needs some work

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (12 children)

autism discussionWas inspired by all the 'tism talk in the mega to retake the tests on Embrace Autism again. I took them a few years ago, scored in the autistic range, got further confirmation by a psychiatrist who agreed that I probably am autistic, and basically forgot about it. Honestly, out of all my various neurodivergencies, I feel like my autism is the one that causes me the least pain and distress. I despise my OCD and my ADHD, but my autism? My autism is cool.

Anyways, I scored 34 on AQ, 154 on RAADS-R, and to my surprise, 102 on CAT-Q??? I guess I mask a lot less than I thought I did. Maybe that's why I struggle a lot socially, lol. I definitely don't relate to the common autistic experience of following a social "script", though I do try my best to be nice. My experience with trying to socialize with people in-person (especially in school settings) is that I will have a nice, friendly first meeting, and then those people will just... not be friends with me, and become friends with other people instead. I wonder if I just subconsciously radiate those autistic vibes, lol.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Haven't had a mental crisis in weeks about my own self, which is good, but I don't know if it's cause I suppress the thoughts or avoid them.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (10 children)

tucker-catboy Im trans and my dick is small

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago

I find it hard to keep in touch with old man friends. The guy in question for me is such a manchild, leftie, and good overall, but a manchild and with weird views about sex.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

found my car today leslie-shining

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Post orchi does being kicked β€œin the balls” feel good bc of the parineum?/j

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago

I'm happy to try it out with you 😊

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (17 children)

I hate how everything is a fucking app these days why the god damn fuck can I not sign up for lex on my computer. It wouldn't be as big of an issue if they didn't have some shitty browser auth that fails (probably because my phone likes to open a private browser tab for apps instead of the full browser app). Like wow guys wouldn't it be easier to verify my browser IF I WAS USING A FUCKING WEB BROWSER TO DO THIS. JUST LET ME SIGN UP LIKE I DO FOR EVERYTHING ELSE ON THE ENTIRE INTERNET.

Anyway I'm just annoyed I can't see how many cool gay things are happening near me that I won't even go to, maybe I'll debug it later. Right now I have girl farming to do.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

rant about voice training, self directed ableist language (sorry, just can't think of how else to say things sometimes)First, thank you AmandaBynesThought for writing a whole effortpost to help me. I hope no one feels like they have to write another to try and help me (right now) because honestly I haven't tried very hard (story of my fucking life)

GOD I don't even know if I'm fucking HUMMING properly. I'm so fucking stupid. How can I not know how to hum. And how do I know when it "cracks" like wtf, or what's a couple "notes" down. What's fucking RESONANCE MEAN. Its all just so frustrating and I feel so stupid. I'm such a fucking quiter too. literally try for like 10 minutes two days and want to give up. how the fuck am I supposed to transition when I give up on fucking everything so god damn fast. Whatever, I'll try harder later.

Hope no one feels the need to spend a bunch of energy explaining shit to me, I'm sure I could google it and find the answers. If you have a favorite guide or something I'd appreciate it though.

I know this sounds like a really negative post but I've actually been completely girl vibing all night and plan on going to bed very happy. Just frustrated at myself, but not in a sad way.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (8 children)

we're back in it. news mega can kiss my ass

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

CW Imagine Dragons

I'm waking up

To ash and dust

I grow some tits

And I cut off my nuts

I'm breathing in the femcel balls

RDR2 Arthur yell

pop of a medication bottle lid

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (15 children)

Okay, so now that I have achieved fuckin Curly Girl Zen and have beautiful hair, I draw attention to my original question - what is the strat for curly bangs? My bangs resolve into this bizarre arrangement of ringlets that look like I left curlers in at weird angles. Kind of unpresentable. How style curly bangs?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

Positive Post: From anecdotes here about shaving legs, I thought I'd shave mine again.

First time I've shaved my legs going on 8 months I think soviet-hmm Notice that most of my leg hair has turned blonde and the only dark hairs left on my body are the little bits on my shins, with a lot thinner sparser hair on my calves. It's weird seeing how much of my body hair just plain stopped once I started HRT like flat out doesn't grow and also how much sparser the thicker hair ended up to now where It's the bit on my shins that remains.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i literally logged on to tumblr and got flashbanged by PIGPOOPBALLS

that's the wrong website wtf

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