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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell cat-trans meow-knife-trans cat-trans

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I don't want big tits, but I want big tits energy, ya feel me?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (2 children)

just remembered the time i was at a club and a cis girl rudely pushed me aside and told me to get out of the way so she could see the drag performers. like sorry the queer is taking up space??

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago

straight woman in a gay bar vibe

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

there really should be a seating arrangement in order of gayness/queerness. i want to be a class S queer person

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (8 children)

Going to logout and touch-grass for the next two weeks or so. Going on a backpacking trip. Keep up the down with cis posting in my absence as the spirit strikes thee. meow-knife-trans

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (10 children)

Stop surpassing us news nerds wojak-nooo or I will call my mom

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (6 children)

It always amazes me how much better everything tastes/sounds/looks when I'm feeling good vs not. This was a great night hexbear, I love you all very much comfy The people on this funny bear website help me a lot. I hope I can come out, be accepted, and start my physical/social transition soon. Anyway I'm just feeling happy and emotional. Goodnight.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (7 children)


The matrix and it’s consequences have been a disaster for the trans mega

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Can I create another girl inside of me to forcefem me cause this part of transition sucks ngl

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

trying to stop myself from drinking by saying that i need to lose weight if I want to weight cycle so I can get girl curves

de-electrochemistry Oh yeah, chug that entire bottle of Sake girl, it'll be great

de-encyclopedia That's at least 800 empty alcohol based calories and you're already struggling to get down below 200, let alone your goal of 185. Don't do it

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (10 children)

I think they cranked up the power because that shit hurt this time agony

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago

Sorry slept in

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (12 children)

Idk if anyone can relate to this, but on the topic of they/them pronouns for the longest time I used them alongside she/her, but I kind of realized I was only doing so because I couldn’t accept myself as a woman and as a way to endure the third-gendering cis people often inflict on binary trans people.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (4 children)

gotta give it to him, joe biden answering "at least three" when asked how many genders there are is pretty funny

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Wish me luck ya’ll, got my first laser appt for bottom surgery tomorrow, and am both hype for results and emphatically not hype for the pain. basil-anxious-smile

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (2 children)

oh this is BULLSHIT. i just changed pharmacies and now this spiro doesn't smell as good as the last batch what the FUCK

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (6 children)

getting bullied for making the same meal (and variations thereof) too often. There's variations! I'm mixing it up! Sometimes the ingredients change! Sometimes it's a sauce on rice, sometimes it's sauce in rice, sometimes it's rice in stew! I'm iterating, I'm innovating, I'm perfecting this shit but nooo I have a limited palate and a poverty mindset.

Gonna eat potatoes alone out of sheer spite rn

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (4 children)

girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me, this was my first relationship
tell me how to cope pls

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (3 children)

The fact that being attracted to other women is now gay for me is pretty great. Though I'm terrified of the reality I now live in where being attracted to men is now.... STRAIGHT shudders

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Just gonna drop by to say I love my trans comrades bridget-vibe

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (9 children)

I kinda like extreme heights. I'm not fussed on whatever height a partner is, generally I can appreciate anything, but if you are really tall or really short I think that's great. I guess because I am a median kinda height, but I either want you to put your chin on my head or let me use you as an armrest. Because cute crush

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago

hornyme and my partner finally christened our bed. they just moved in with me. before we got here she asked me what my bed was like for sex and i realised i'd never had sex in it. results: good for fucking this is a trans post because we are trans.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (15 children)

thinking of awful things. what if the general mega rebranded as the Cis Megathread and started competing as well

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (22 children)

Genderfluid in the sense that inside of me there are two wolves and one of them has been having an existential crisis for most of the past 10 days and doesn't really care about gender that much right now as a result and the other really wants to be more feminine and gets most of the joy and dysphoria from that... and also there's like two dead wolves over on the side don't worry about that sunny-breakdown <-- me right now

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (4 children)

the second no-copyright mega on hexbear dot net. I guess the news mega will be the next to do a sonic theme

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (16 children)

i genuinely feel like i would be so much further ahead in life if i didn't have adhd. i could have a job that doesn't pay absolute shit, a degree, an earlier transition, etc.

actually debilitating

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Second laser appointment in one hour. Who's jealous? sicko-fem

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (7 children)

Having a pretty lovely transiversary~ 4 years of being one of them gosh danged transes, it feels really nice.

Went out in my favourite casual outfit to go to a cafe with my brother who was visiting, and I even managed to push myself to go do groceries while still en femme. Proud of myself for that second bit. Plus honestly it's incredible how much better I feel from going out en femme after so long. And I got complimented when I got home by one of my roommate's friends! Still the cutest girl alive~

And apparently I slimmed a bit, since I can't wear my favourite skirt as a high waist quite as easily as I could before. I think my weight might be cycling considering I saw the increase of fat in my ass so that's nice. Sad I can't wear my favourite skirt now though, gonna have to tailor it smaller.

But now I'm back home and can take the rest of the day nice and easy and mess around building cute stuff on the minecraft server now that it's up. Feeling very, very good.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (9 children)

so I thought getting gendered correctly was the best feeling everbut its actually getting called your real name. That word had been rattling around in my brain for a while, and that's why. Because that's who I really am. And getting called it feels so good.

Another great day comfy I'm the happiest girl in the world right now. I am very excited for all my other firsts.

I know there's been a lot of emotion posting, I have a special interest post I have been meaning to make, I will try and actually write it out soon. You all better like nerdy >.<

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago

I'm writing a blog post rn and honestly kind of having fun with it. Just on a Wordpress free plan for now, until I can get a job and actually get a domain and stuff. I yearn to outfitpost and I hate instagram -> thus, blog.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Is this the normal bi-cycle or am I straight cause if I'm straight I swear to god I'm gonna be pissed

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (42 children)

~All Trans Mega Users Are Obligated To Respond To This Post~

Have you ever played a Sonic? no-copyright
Which ones? What is your favorite? tails-what
Who is your favorite character? amy-bruh

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Oh my god I got ass eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

~~I mean I already had a nice one even pre-E but now it's gotten noticeable even in boy pants~~

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i need to remove my black nail polish because of "work-place hygiene" smdh utter transphobia trans-sad

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (1 children)

oh maybe i should become someone with 5 middle names nia-smug

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I am once again asking if there's any dating apps that aren't completely awful for transbians

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (7 children)

I just keep staring at the pictures I took of myself with a dress, makeup, and fake boobs, and I just keep smiling.

Very normal cis behavior. I'm SO cis brandon

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (3 children)

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 months ago (11 children)

First time binding with trans tape, today.

not-so-quick initial review

  1. It doesn't get the chest down completely flat, which I was expecting; however I do wish I had managed to bind a little flatter? Right now it looks like I have either small A cups or very large pecs, and there's definitely still cleavage there. In the videos I watched it seemed that the people in them were able to get slightly flatter results. This may also be an issue of self-perception and things coming across differently on video, though.

  2. The good part is, when I put on a shirt, it does sell the illusion a lot better. From the front view the illusion works best, from the side view again, looks like small A cups to me but still not too bad. Definitely a lot better than the B/C cup boob silhouette that I was getting really tired of. (I don't know exactly what size bra I wear, the last time I wore a bra at all regularly I was a B cup but that was 5 years ago and I think my boobs have grown since then.)

  3. Definitely feel a lot more comfortable than a traditional binder, which was my main reason for getting it. I got my first binder when I was 18, and right after getting that binder I got COVID. Since then, binders have just... not been comfortable for me, and the last time I tried wearing one I had to take it off really quickly just because of how much difficulty breathing I was having. I could probably get slightly flatter results with a binder, but I don't think it's worth the health risk. I know people also use sports bras for the compression, but I hate bras. They are sensory hell to me and they always have been.

  4. I was not wearing a binder regularly because of how uncomfortable I found it. I think I may try to bind more regularly now with the tape, because yeah, always having to dissociate a bit from my chest area got to be tiring after idk two years of doing it. Hopefully I'll get top surgery sooner rather than later, but I think that's probably still at least a few years off, unfortunately.

  5. Since this is my first time applying it, my application was pretty sloppy and I had to redo one side. I think I'll get better at that as time goes on.

  6. Not having saggy tits is such a boost to my mental health. I know there are probably some people in this thread who want saggy tits, and all I can say is: take my saggy tit energy spirit-bomb

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (2 children)

transbian polycule dating be like:

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (2 children)

nsfwbdsmtest is too cisgender. discuss

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (15 children)

Think I’m gonna get into Jazz obama-spike
I’mma make it an annoying part of my personality until I inevitably drop it and move on to something else.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Yknow what fuck it, they’ve gone too far, it’s color revolution time

I’m gonna be the news mega’s zelensky, who’s gonna be my navalny/prigo/zaluzhnyi/ponomarev/kasparov/etc

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