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Informal Site Survey: Are you transgender or gender diverse? Yes, no, or maybe? (hexbear.net)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Hey, we haven't been able to find a secure way to poll everyone yet, and I've really been itching to ask everyone this question so we can get updated numbers on our trans population here. This isn't going to be scientific or anything, but just a quick guess.

Please respond to this post with a 'yes', 'no', or 'maybe'. If you have anything to add, please use a spoiler tag below your answer like so:

spoiler

hi!

Remember to respond even if you are cis.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

ish?

Sometimes I want both parts like I have both "in me". I feel more happy when I don't have to put on the mask of being "man". I'm more happy being womanly. Fantazise, but I'm ok with being a male save balding, stupid facial hair that I have to manage constantly and circumcised. I think circumcision took something from me. I wish I could have sensitivity in my nipples.

I've always said to my family I'm "half woman" kind of as a quip to excuse my femine side, but I identify more male.

I don't know if that's eggish or fluid or what not, but it isn't like I have dysmorphia about insisting on being a woman. I didn't have those issues through puberty with my gender. AFIK I'm cis gay male.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

yes

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Cis

bonus

2017 to 2020 I identified as trans, then identified as a femboy until about 2022/3 where I now just identify as myself. I'm still in touch with my feminine side tho. I'm also bi

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

yes

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Yes Yes

I'm voting yes twice to cancel out somebody saying no

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Yes Maybe?

spoiler

I feel pretty nonbinary and close to lots of trans issues but I also feel like I am day to day presenting as a cis male so I always feel like I am co-opting trans culture. Also I don't know if I spoiler tagged this right

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

cis

i identify as having what are considered traditionally effeminate characteristics...

...though not sure about this since a dear woman friend questioned me on this and now i feel unworthy or smth (･᷄ὢ･᷅)

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)

fuck that, do what you want

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Cis+

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (1 children)

although...

It's more like a No to maybe, but i don't feel like i've come to a conclusion that's meaningfully different from bog-standard cis man enough to say anything but No

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

You're allowed to experiment and do whatever makes you feel happy!

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Maybe ? Even if I am trans I most likely would never transition so it doesnt impact me much one way or the other.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Yes

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

Maybe

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Yes

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