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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades 
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
*clap claps* Good girls! Line up for your praise and a quick peck on the cheek!
This has gotta be the worst time in my life to find out my parents are transphobic (they got into the Italian boxer thing) 
My laundry basket has been full for months and just functions as storage for boy clothes I don't use aymore, while my actual laundry is just stored on my bedroom floor. I should probably do something about this.
Sorry I keep posting about this.
(cw Dysphoria)
Okay I'm feeling way worse than I thought, I want to just curl up in a ball on my bed and cry once I get home but I still have tutoring to do so I can't for another 3.5 hours at least.
I hate that just a bit of facial hair being worse than normal can make me spiral like this. Especially when I was and should be feeling great right now. But instead it's infecting how I feel about myself in general, I can't see the woman I normally do when I look in a reflection, I look at photos that I usually love and feel disgusted about my jaw and other features, and the nails I painted to feel a bit better during work are just making me feel worse.
Honestly, I know getting the mega numbers up feels good, but I like the current pace more, it feels like I can reasonably see everything again and it's a comfy pace where there's one or two new convos when I check in but not too many.
Just had an interview for a big promotion, very nervous even though most of my coworkers have told me that they hope I get it. This shelter needs more trans people in leadership.
Idk how I ever stood having body hair, the little that builds up after going a week without shaving/epilating makes me feel gross.
Better now tho 
Wearable Collars Minecraft Mod
Add it to the modpack it will be funny.
Don't do it. What will the server owner think of it. What will the others think of me 
Sister might be getting back with her abusive ex and idk what to do about it. 
So, as some of you might know, I'm kinda struggling. I think starting my transition would make things easier. To do this now, unfortunately I have to come out. I don't think my family will be openly hostile but I don't expect them to understand.
How should I come out, and what questions should I plan for? What things should I not say? I don't know if I'll do it super soon but I want to prepare myself.
Love to live with your new name, get it put on your legal documents and birth certificate, only to start having doubts about it after ten years. 
Starting today, I'm gonna try my best to smile more and overcome my anxieties more often!!
Something about how the setting of every "cozy game" is some sort of pocket dimension where the concepts of society and conflict don't exist is unnerving to me.
oh hey, i've never posted in the trans mega before. let's change that! happy 4 year HRTiversary to me, God's gayest soldier
peer pressuring all of my AMAB friends into doing estrogen like an after school special
"What do you mean, girl? All the cool kids are doing it" 
ok, transpeople on my computer. I'm going to start working out again today. I expect you to hold me to this promise. 
Finally got my first shipment of girl clothes! Lacey boyshorts,cute chokers, comfy thigh-highs, and ruffley flowey floral skirt. Celebrated/prepared by shaving my thighs and surrounding area for the first time too. (Only got a shitty men's razor atm, and I was going through blades like crazy.)
Seeing myself without facial hair and that choker, I feel like I actually saw a woman in the mirror for the first time.
Can't tell what's more euphoric, doing spinnies in my pretty skirt or sitting around reading wearing nothing but stockings, panties, and a big shirt.
Still have one skirt waiting to come in, its this beautiful black pleated midi skirt that has the prettiest bow on it. I love how girly it is.
I can't believe how pretty and good I feel presenting as a woman. I don't want to go back. Before this I was still questioning my gender, but I think I feel certain now. I'm finally honestly starting to feel like an actual woman <3
non binary feels/dysphoria
Increasingly realizing my non binary-ness by how much I recoil at being called βdoll,β βgirl,β and other cutesy terms. Like, iβm almost 30, I get why folks do it, but I find it patronizing mostly for transfems.
Like one would never refer to a cis woman as girl constantly?
This is probably me being very autistic about this, idk
spoiler
Scheduled my first bottom surgery laser session! Not looking forward to the pain, but so hype for the eventual reward.
I have this light green bedsheet that I got for free from my old college (they had a free room where people could bring their unused stuff and I took a Lot of clothes and fabric from there). Remembered it again the other day as I was cleaning out my sewing room, and decided that I needed to use it for something. I wanted to do a light, romantic, yet summery dress and I sketched out a bunch of possible designs.
Ofc there's no pattern out there that really fits this garment, but that's okay because I want to learn pattern drafting anyways. I have never drafted a pattern before, but I'm definitely interested in doing it even as a novice sewist. This dress might not be the first pattern that I draft because a lot of the designs I've sketched are kind of complicated, but it's definitely a project I want to do down the line.
These designs are numbered in the order I made them. I think it's obvious that I really like bishop sleeves and flared skirts, haha. I think 4 is really fun, I basically thought "what if I took a poet shirt and made it a dress". Definitely one of the top candidates for what I go with. 6 looks pretty different from the others because it's inspired by hanfu, Wei/Jin dynasty hanfu in particular. I'm not usually a fan of the asymmetrical wrap-around style, but I love it in hanfu; and I'm definitely going to try to learn how to sew some hanfu (the patterns actually look relatively simple from what I could find.) Of course, 6 is not a traditional hanfu by any means; it's a single-piece and the skirt is short. I'm also a fan of 8, I wonder how drop-sleeved bishop sleeves could work.
Anyways I had a lot of fun thinking up these designs and hopefully I can make one (or maybe more, in other colors!) of them work eventually.
I'm mad, 
I have another 12 hour day but it's the day a game I was excited for comes out and I won't be able to play it until I'm fully done work at which point I'll probably be too tired to enjoy it
Question for the computer transes:
Is using fedora linux instead of arch linux (as a transfem) reactionary? Asking for a friend, they really need to know.
There should pounds for domless dog girls, cat girls too but theyre a lil more independent on account of the cat part
Is it normal to be genderfluid in the sense that you get extreme transfeminine dysphoria due to puberty, identify as a girl/woman from like 13 to 20 or so, get nonbinary with it and even a bit masculine for a couple years, and then basically have a mental switch one day a month after graduating college where you're back to being a woman and can't imagine androgyny let alone masculinity again? 
cw sex shit that's probably slightly tmi, playing with a brainworm concept
This "autogynephilia" thing, y'know... It's kinda cool, pretty funny.........
I don't necessarily mean getting off in a mirror or similar, although I really respect those who get that invested in self love, I think it's rad. I also don't really mean the stupid pathologised thing that the colonel-sanders-lookin quack advanced and which subsequently got rekt, thank u Julia Serano!!
What I mean properly is that being present and enjoying your actual body during sex is so cool and fun. It occured to me the other day that thoughts about myself and my own form take up almost as much mindspace in my goofy running monologue as thoughts about my partner, during. I am motivated to do stuff equally for my partner and equally because I feel good, because I am incredibly hot. When I don't bother pulling up the blanket afterword, I'm luxuriating happily and observing MYSELF, because I look fucking beautiful. Oh that's so troublesome, thinking I am sexy during sex, gosh. The users in reddit threads this time a decade ago would be reduced to hysterics at my utterly "gynephillic" enjoyment of my own body. Enbyphillic? I'll work on it.
I am pretty sure that the slight dissonance between myself and my identity was what caused the problem here, 'cause I feel so good now, which I did not think I would ever say. I've come a really long way since fretting over my ribcage or whatever after that /r9k/ guy called my figure "boyish", lmao.
I like what I see, which fucks. Even though "woman" is not a binding contract that has any measurement requirements, I think brainrot was causing me to feel weird about certain things when viewed in that context. This is waaaaaaaay better. Fuckin gender.
got bait and switched out of a job 
they emailed me at like 5am this morning saying i was moving forwards with hiring and that i just had to fill out some online questions before scheduling an interview. i woke up at 10am, saw the email, filled out the questions, and then got told the position was already filled
job hunting suuuuuuuuuuuuucks. i've applied to more places than i can count and have only heard back from 4, 3 nos and now this bs
anyway once i finally do end up getting a job i think i'm going to use part of my first paycheck on getting my ears pierced
Separated from my blΓ₯haj for the next 7 days. That's okay, it's not like I have a deep emotional attachment to it or anything 
genitals
Honestly considering getting an orchi.
My balls pretty much live inside me anyways and it would be nice not to have to worry about anti-androgens or T production.
Edit: my gf referring to an orchi as βgetting me fixedβ is kinda tipping the scales ngl .-.
friday night vibes at the laundromat are quiet and much appreciated to the weekend vibes
I'm gay. Gay like you wouldn't believe, gay like you haven't seen before, you simply cannot comprehend how gay i am
