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WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
I hate when I succumb to the worst urges of Online and then regret it, always feels like shit. at least I usually manage to sober up and do a bit of self crit and delete the Bad posts. sometimes I feel like posting is bad for me lol and I should just write in a journal or some shit. i guess everyone's susceptible to it and it's gonna happen from time to time. I like to think this site is better for me than like, twitter or whatever which I don't have anymore. and I think it's a fair thing to think. but maybe I should try take a week off or smth, I've been scrolling and posting a whole lot. love all my trans comrades 💜
When I took this job I didn't think I'd be doing so much random weird IT, TV remotes? ELPASS on the doors on when it shouldn't be? SSL not letting people log in to the hospital network?
pining over what I don't have
I waaaaant estrogen pleaaase
I'm going to go play stardew valley and be a cute girl.
Hunting for good vegan croissants. Not easy! I want the shit you can dunk in chocolate or coffee, not the fucking things that are half alcohol and taste and feel like bread rolls. I will make them myself if I have to! Fucking stop me! 
OKAY NERDS 
Who has some good GL webtoons? Can be manhua, manwha, donghua... american comic stuff, weeb comics, anything works but I need good quality comix about girls kissing.
EDIT: I ended up compiling a list of slop I like.
list of finished series
I Love Amy by Unun - sad doggirl tomboy gets dragged around by a yandere stereotype. Pretty good.
After the Curtain Call by ASSAM - uh this one is ok I guess, been a while, some TV/actress slop.
Always Human by walkingnorth/arielnorth - transhumanist lesbians, it's sort of about disability as a subtheme. Good stuff.
Blooming Sequence by Lee Eul - more film/TV/actress slop, been ages but thought it was okay.
Getting to Know Grace by Seo Rim/Mokma - ohhhh this dreary gothic elizabethian maid/lady romance kinda slaps. Love the art.
Ghosts of Greywoods by LetINK - weirdly the sams as above, also very good. I like LetINK's second series more but it is unfinished.
It Would Be Great If You Didn't Exist by Carbonara - this tanks in the last third but the art is cute and the leads have such an excellent love/hate.
Mojito by Fute - I forget most of this but thought it was decent. Solid art, I liked both leads.
Soulmate by Ke Ran Bing/Wenzhi Lizi - one of my favs, the time travel and chronic illness shit, it just hits. Love it.
here is some shit that's unfinished but I like
Aerial Magic by walkingnorth - nooooo why ;_;
Hella Good by Chiipi - this never updates but I like it okay.
Love, Lila by YREZU - I want these two to kiss but it NEVER updates last I checked.
Re-Blooming by LetINK - NOOOOOO WHYYYYYYYYY LETINK HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME REEEEEEEEEEE 
MY FUCKING BELOVED WHYYYYYY
What Are The Chances by Chantsky - haha look it's an age gap, sure hope that's not a trend wow, that wouldn't be cute. Chantsky is in college or something so it never updates.
How Do We Relationship by Tamifull - I have been meaning to reread this, the one yuri manga I have liked.
privileged dilemma - sports
So, I’m not sure if I want to go non-biney hrt (maybe moderate blockers, some e) or full e, but I figure I might as well do one while I have the opportunity. I can think and do think of a million arguments for both sides, and I’m a little lost. Here’s a microcosm of my dilemma:
My current sport is climbing and I love it and it’s cool being the only one who ever wears a skirt to do it and everyone’s chill and it’s trans friendly, but one problem. Im a good climber bc I’m strong for being relatively new and I’m decently sized and have big hands. I worry about continuing blocking t that my strength will continue to decrease, and I won’t have the size advantage of most women that usually makes things even out.
Anyway, what if instead of worrying about all that I switched back to football (“soccer”). I loved it throughout my childhood and I was pretty good, and the teams were co-ed. Grow up and bye bye co-edness. Gender’s silly, but I just don’t want to be a man and don’t trust men. I don’t know if I would like being on a men’s football team in the future. Thus, what if I joined a women’s team? Well, problem with that is imposter syndrome and maybe I’m too good (despite not doing it in years) and have too much t. I could in years maybe go full e and join a women’s team. That could be nice if I’m not too anxious?
So, I don’t know if anyone has advice or I’m just ranting, but I hope you can see how sports are tied up with my transition options, among other things.
Arranged a consultation for facial hair removal, because right now I have money I can spend, and I don't know when that'll next be the case. The provider also explicitly talks about trans women on their website, so I hope that they will be good. I really fucking hate my facial hair and beard shadow, glad to hopefully see it gone soon.
spoiler eating issues, no specifics though
I don't want sympathy or people trying to talk me out of it right now. I just want to let you all know that I kinda have an ed and if you see me post about my weight or how well my diet is going, you should be cautious before giving me your full support. I will try not to put any of you in that position and avoid saying something like that, but saying I have some specific issues
you know how people with eds can be. This post is part of making me not do that.
:::
Just to not completely ruin the vibe I am actually girl chilling right now, very comfy 
I was standing in the shaving aisle with wifey, we were mulling over which razors to buy, what was on sale and such. We were gonna get the four pack of 4 blades, but she wanted to save with the 3 blades ($1 less) at which point I turned to her and said "Anything more than three blades is for rich people." and she grinned a lil.
Chat, I have never felt more complete in my life, the elation I felt is indescribable. Me, making Orange Book injokes with my wife. This is what victory feels like.
I had some valerian root tea and an edible. I'm hoping it kicks in soon as I wanna go to bed early tonight. And by early I mean by 1:30ish instead of like 3 or later like I've been doing the last few nights
doing a closet cleanout rn and I think there are just some colors out there that I simply do not understand. What is a person supposed to do with light gray? So much clothing comes in light gray and does it actually flatter anybody? if you're a light gray clothing enjoyer I fear and respect you.
I got this small like, Japanese(?) cat plushie and my god this thing is amazing. Need more plush in my lfie.
I thought prog was making me feel like shit. Turns out I’m just sick and feverish less go 
the bimbo estrogen strikes again:
i got a set of bralettes off of amazon that were SUPER comfy but the straps were just too long and didn't fit right. took me multiple days of telling myself i'll get around to stitching them shorter before i realized that i was just wearing the damn things backwards fucking hell
overwatch update: it's just me and @[email protected] carrying on heals now
I stim/fidget with my bracelet so much now I do the movements constantly even when I'm not even wearing it.
Chat I am so cooked.
I hope I am not spamming 😅
NSFW trauma generally
Anyone has sexual trauma from porn? Aside from that I went on sites such as Omeagle and almost got groomed, or did for a short while, as a teenager. Been repressing since and working throuhg it with therapy.
I hate people who go on the stuff I do and dont give a shit on what I have to say! I get good feedback by almost everybody, but today they all seemed to not give a fuck and not even turn around when I started talking. I hate tourists (I work in tourism)
i think im off to read wlw fanfics in my bed before falling asleep, goodnight everyone. 