I went to the hairdresser today. It turned out really cute, wish I could post a selfie
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WEBRINGS:
Transmasculine Pride Ring
surgery discussion
I wake up this morning to a notification that my FFS is in one week from today. I’m so excited and so nervous, ya’ll.
I am absolutely looking forward to it, but terrified if something goes wrong or it I don’t actually like the result. I know these are normal feelings, but it’s intense how real this feels now that the date is approaching.
Got on higher dose of e. Practically cured my ADHD symptoms for 3 days. Then it all stopped and I was depressed and my ADHD symptoms were back with a vengeance. Felt like I was stuck like that forever.
Last night I remembered that I’d ran out of my depression meds and missed a couple days. So being exhausted and unable to do things is normal when I miss those meds. Woke up today feeling hopeful that things will get better.
Cautious optimism sucks because it’s just normal optimism that I pretend isn’t as exciting as it really is. But holy shit I want to feel better.
They're doing weird foreplay in this book. observe:
She smirked. "You're cute when you're giving me sass."
I tossed my hair back over one shoulder. "And that's supposed to convince me to stop giving you sass?"
She raised her eyebrow again, and I got the feeling she knew what that did to me, too. "Quite the contrary. Finish that salad, Avery."
giving me tremors and ideas
what is the book?
Fake It (Taste of Port Andrea) by Lily Seabrooke
Thanks, adding it to my list
Finish the salad, Shinji
oh noooooo Holly is cornering Avery in against the kitchen top, why is this book literally written from my own fantasies???
I did that thing where I spent time touching grass. Now, so much has happened since the last time I posted, I don't know where to start.
why are all the girls i really want to kiss so far away
i wanna hug em, kiss em, be real sweet
BUT IM STUCK ON AN ISLAND??????????
planet is cruel
mood fr fr
not stuck on an island though
how to convince cat that chickens are friends not food?
Put cat in a chicken costume, maybe it will develop some empathy for the chickens
I finally got around to watching I Saw the TV Glow and I've been crying for an hour reading the threads about it from a few months ago. I wish this movie had come out 15 years ago, though maybe I would have been too repressed to get it back then (and I definitely couldn't afford any therapy or gender-affirming care back then). I love all of you and I'm so happy this community exists. If I never found my way here I'd still be pretending to be someone that I'm not, shoving all those "problematic" thoughts down. The movie really captured the existential terror of knowing the truth but being unable to accept it, fearful of acknowledging it and giving it power and living a lie for so many years. I'm only out to a small group of people but the crushing weight of existence is starting to ease up now that there are people I feel safe around.
TikTok is full of I Saw The TV Glow videos where people talk about having detransitioned. Almost universally, everyone around them thinks it was a phase, but deep down, they still consider themselves trans and their real reason was social pressure. I’m not out to many people in my life but I can’t even imagine.