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do you think you just fell out of a coconut tree (gender transition)? we (trans people) exist in the context of all in which we live (queer internet forums) and what came before us (throwing bricks at the police)
dysphoria
god i'm in such an awful place with my transition right now
i don't look like a woman, but at the same time i don't really look like a man either, i'm stuck in a in-between purgatory that i can't get out of
i'm tired of looking like this, honestly i'd take just looking like a man over this. i just want to blend into the background instead of everyone staring at me with disgust
Tired of body hair
Give me ~~liberty~~ fur or give me ~~death~~ no body hair
my face looks slightly different now but somehow it feels like the facial fat redistribution has made my jawline more pronounced? Idk where the estrogen has us planned going but I'm excited to see. Still weird seeing my jawline this pronounced, and it doesn't feel femme at all :(
today is injection day but the doctor lady told me to take a whole 25% less estrogen from now on. i know my E levels are already super high but I want MORE estrogen >:(
facial hair
I finally shaved, I didn't realize how big my facial hair made my face, my head literally looks like it shrank in size
coming out/being in the closet, shame
Being in the closet is eating me alive. Was on a vc with friends and just felt terrible the whole time. Like there was a dirty secret I couldn't share. Anytime I'm doing stuff with my family I can't stop thinking about it. What am I going to do chat. And for some reason, all this comes with a (un)healthy helping of doubt. Am I trans, or have I talked myself into it somehow. I don't think I have but the feelings/fears are still there.
I think I'm going to finally change my pronouns to they/them on discord though. Still not what I want but a lot less drastic then she/her, yaknow?
Anyway I'm actually doing okay tonight, I know this was kind of a bummer post but I feel fine. Well maybe fine is a stretch. Numb would be more accurate, but numb is okay 
Hope you're all having a good night.
https://hexbear.net/post/3044749?scrollToComments=false
new friends! take a look
I have found more of my old (rubber band) bracelet stuff! The only colors I have a significant amount of is purple, blue and clear though (literally so close why not pink 
) but I think I'm going to make a purple one and save the blue for a 
one, once I get my hands on some pink bands.
Maybe Iβm just a Buddhist, but I realized I donβt really identify with my physical body. Itβs not that I want to express some inherent gender, I just like to see a pretty face when I look in the mirror. Funnily, Iβm still in the societal brainworm of gendering people and appearance and action, but when I look at myself in the mirror I see no gender.
For anyone following from my little meltdown over the weekend. My girlfriend and I have worked things out and communicated about everything. We really do love each other and I think once the t-blockers kick in we will both be a lot happier in the relationship.
hrt questions
Once I start on t-blockers how soon will it be until I start having some effects from it? Like spontaneous erections are very annoying to me. I'd love to see less aggression towards myself and my loved ones, etc.
Will it be pretty immediate? I know the secondary sex characteristics from the estrogen will take a long time. But I would really just like to not be under the influence of testosterone all the time. And the faster that happens I think the happier I will be and my partner will be.
Appointment is for Friday!
I think the cashier at the grocery store clocked me today, but like in a nice way? She was smiling at me a lot and was just super friendly.
Did anyone pick a new name that's not English? How did you go about it? Don't want to commit cultural appropriation or get a name from a culture I have no clue about, and English names sound bad in other languages most of the time in my experience
Told my friend last night I was questioning and changing my pronouns on discord to they/them, and he didn't have to use them (I added this last part because I am literally 
). He was like oh okay, well I don't get feeling weird about being a guy but I'll try to remember that, I might accidentally forget though. Want to play some Warframe with me?
Chat the cis are okay.
Oh also since I've complained about my sleep recently, I slept great last night, 7 hours.
lazy bitch still not getting around to getting a therapist, more at 11
got high last night and started fantasizing about what it would have been like to have been a neurotypical cis lesbian girl back in high school and how that seemed like a lost world i can never have had but should of, yet i remember following it later with a strong feeling of trans pride in an inexplicable way to where I get to instead have the lived experience of a trans woman, which is rewarding and prideworthy in its own right
now i don't know what to think other than "ugh i got to leave for work soon"
Love seeing all the new comrades joining the mega. Welcome! 
Goofnight trans mega, gonna be a better tomorrow(or today timezone dependent) 
so i guess i've got androgene insensitivity. v complicated feels about this, but i've got my partner to help me figure things out.
also what de HECC i swear i had no idea Toriyama
spoiler
died
My biggest fear: becoming a middle aged man
Music Iβve been listening to: Deftones, Chevelle (I only know of middle aged men who listen to them)
I think the Chappell Roan Minecraft parodies and Not Like Us mashups put me back in the right demographic, though.
small dysphoria talk
after i hit the bullshit male puberty my face was always covered in a layer of grease, like it was never ending. i could wipe it with a paper towel and see the grease on it. now that i'm on the good shit and my T levels are down my facial skin is SO GOOD it's so much better it's ridiculous. i'm fucking pissed how i could've had a good skin without the slight acne scarring (which has been fading thanks to E) that i still have 
this sucks
chat
